My wife recently admitted she kissed a guy ten years into our marriage

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife recently admitted she kissed a guy ten years into our marriage.

We’d been drinking one night and asked each other if we’d ever been unfaithful. I was mortified when she admitted she’d kissed someone.

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She had been drinking with friends in a pub. Then they all went on to a party. But before, she had this ‘kiss goodbye’ with a guy in the bar – but said it was more of a snog than a peck. I’m 59 and my wife’s 57. We’ve been married for 35 years. I thought I’d moved on, but I can’t shake off the image of her kissing some stranger. I feel so let down by her. 

She says she was flattered by the attention and instantly regretted it. It was a one off, but I feel physically sick and keep churning it over.

DEIDRE SAYS: Her inhibitions will have been lowered by the alcohol, but it shows real trust and honesty that she admitted this kiss.

You’ve had a shock, but it was one mistake on one night.

What really matters is the state of your relationship and your feelings for one another now.

You can rebuild the trust and your marriage could be even stronger. 

My support pack Dealing with Jealousy will help you manage these damaging feelings.

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