DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend and I have, so far, only had sex three or four times. Each time it has been after we’ve had a few drinks.
I’m 21, he is 22 and I’ve been seeing him for six months.
We get on well and we’re good friends but we didn’t get sexual at all until after six weeks. That’s different from most guys I’ve been with.
Whenever I try to get intimate with him by kissing or flirting he makes it into a joke and tries to distract me. I’m starting to get a little bit embarrassed about it, like he’s not attracted to me.
I like him a lot but I don’t know what to do.
DEIDRE SAYS: How was the sex when you did have it? Did he enjoy it? Did you use contraception? Is he worried you might get pregnant, or he might get hurt? Is he shy? Is he worried about his performance?
What I’m saying is, really, you just have to talk – but be gentle with him.
My e-leaflet Hiding His Feelings? can help.
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