I'm worried that the girl I like won't fancy me if I tell her about my erection problem

She has been sending me messages and I know she is interested but I am worried that she won’t fancy me any more if I tell her about my problem. I am 23 and she is 19.

I am OK masturbating – in fact I think I am addicted to it.

If I stopped masturbating would I then be able to stay hard with this girl?

Worrying about being so useless is getting me down and I think I am suffering from depression.

DEIDRE SAYS: It’s quite natural to relieve sexual tension by masturbating and it’s more likely that the anxiety is blocking your sexual responses.

Get to know this girl better and don’t rush to have sex before you are comfortable together.

You can explain that nerves sometimes get the better of you but things will get better.

My e-leaflet on Solving Erection Problems explains.

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