I am 30 and she is 29. She is the woman I lost my virginity to, and sex was amazing and regular at first.
But after a while she had so many demands over how sex had to be for her to reach orgasm, it eventually stopped me doing so.
A month ago I created a fake Tinder profile for her and within 24 hours got more than 30 responses.
I thought: “What is wrong with me that I don’t fancy her?”
But only one thing sparks me, and that’s big boobs.
My wife told me she would consider having breast enlargement and for a week my sex drive went into overdrive.
But she then decided it’s not for her and we have not been intimate since. Every time we argue about something she complains about our lack of sex.
DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds as though you lost your nerve sexually because you discovered you had to make an effort to bring your wife to orgasm as well as yourself.
Real women’s responses aren’t as they are portrayed in the porn that you probably used until you got together with her.
Don’t shoot yourself in the foot by blaming your lack of desire now on her breasts.
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