I tried to be like girls in his porn but hubby has grown more cold

I’m 32 and he is 34. My family are religious and I was always shy about sex but after seeing his porn, I tried to be more like those women.

I became more vocal during sex and was open to trying new things.

Sometimes my husband becomes distant and doesn’t want sex. He denies it is because of the porn.
I keep telling him to stop looking at it. He says he has but I’m not sure I believe him.

I am always checking his phone. I have told him I imagine him with prostitutes. He is sick of my suspicions. It is pushing him away.

DEIDRE SAYS: Make a determined effort to stop checking your husband’s phone. It just plays into your own insecurities.

Tell your husband he broke your trust and he must be prepared to make an effort to rebuild it.

Say you need lots of loving reassurance from him that you are the one he loves and desires, plus lots of kisses and cuddles from him – even if he doesn’t feel like sex at that moment.


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